Moving from One place to another : houses and in life!

Last Sunday, I finally shifted from my aunts place to a small flat, which I'll be sharing with 3 other girls!! Yes, the same house I was talking about here, if you recollect!

For the first time, I have been living with complete strangers, and although my well-wishers and friends were skeptical about this decision of mine, they've supported me, and the roomies are awesomme! :D :D!!

So what if they are 4-5 years older than me? They have lived on their own for such a long time, and are there to guide me, and help me not make the same mistakes they made when they were new! They're loads of fun!

Ok, So why haven't I been blogging lately? No, I haven't been busy with my roommates, I wish I was though, I had been away to another aunt's place coz' it was long overdue. And after that I did something which I really can't say here, Because, a) its much much worse ( or better, depends on how you take it) than this and this and b) If I tell you, then I'd have to Kill you! :P but mainly it is c) Its too personal and I cannot share it here, yet, but whatever it was, it was simply amazing!!!!!

Love this Pic - that's the 4 of us in Goa, and another one who clicked this!!

Life was at cross-roads some days ago, and now it is crystal clear. Why do things happen when you least expect it? Have you ever felt that before? That you are looking for something, with all your heart and soul, and when you don't find it, all the passion seems to die down, and then from nowhere, miraculously, you feel that your questions have been answered!

And it need not always be a good thing. The same can happen when its not such a good thing too. But right now, its the good things we'll focus on! :)

In general, in a relationship, when things aren't perfect, or not going your way, why does the person end up being blamed? Why not the situation? When you have loved someone so dearly, why would you belittle them because of some non-important thing? And why is it that, when you've decided not to love anymore, you cannot not love that person, who taught you what love is? Who was there in your journey learning, along with you about love? Isn't life all about finding happiness in small things? Isn't life about making tiny compromises [ with or without your liking in it] but living it nevertheless?

What makes us, the "know-all" about life n love anyway? We are all learning every single day of our lives, aren't we?? Is it wrong to change your opinion? Can decisions once taken not be changed when you actually see the impact of a probable wrong decision? It is about moving on... from "here" to "there".

And what matters are those people who are with you, "here" and "there", and also those who were only "here", but not there, coz they've helped you get "there" in some way or the other, and about people who are going to be "there" who will make "there" better than "here" or the other way round, but you end up gaining! Experience. You stand a winner, no matter what you've been through - either "here" or "there"! :)

P.S: I have no idea how I started talking about stuff here!! ;) I think its the blog magic!! I'd love to hear from you guys about my haphazard state of mind anyway:) :) :)

Being Able!

First and foremost, I think I am over using the Exclamation mark and I should stop!!! O what the heck! :)

The shifting of houses will happen mid-September, so, right now, is supposed to be shopping for the house time! This is the first time I'll be doing this, but surprisingly there's no apprehension. I am just simply excited and I think its a good thing!

I have always been someone who'd do anything for a friend! [I think I've mentioned this in earlier posts, and I don't mean to stress - I'm going somewhere with this :P]

Anything. As long as I can do it, or it is in my capacity to do it. Off late, I haven't been giving this my hundred percent to it. And I don't know why. No actually I do! I simply didn't feel like doing it. Helping a friend is one thing, doing something they want you to do, just because they don't want to do it[when it is really their work] is another.

In such a case, why is that I become the wrong one????? Arghh!! Never mind, somethings just don't change. Again, Right or wrong isn't definite right? It depends on people's perceptions. My right might not be your right.[if you're standing in front of me, then my right is your left :P, (sorry, bad joke)]

Its Sunday!! Why am I talking of stuff like this? I must sound all happy and cheerful! Well, I am happy and cheerful, because I could take that particular decision of not doing the thing my friend wanted me to do. I stood my ground and didn't give in to my habit of Yes, Surely, I'll do it for you! [P.S Friend, If you're reading this - I am extremely sorry for not doing it. It was for your career and I felt, I shouldn't be doing it - Principles I have started following]

Nevertheless, I couldn't meet up with "the guys" today for our weekend activity *lol*. I downloaded the complete WWE Summer Slam for one of them, but I couldn't go give it to him, and *sadly* he too is mad at me. But I am planning to give them a lunch surprise tomorrow! Hope it works out!! *Fingers crossed*

Its ADAM's[from the SKARD fame] birthday today!!!! Happy Birthday Darling!! You'll always be special!! Muaaah!! I wish I was In Bijapur with him, like someone else ;-), but its ok I guess!

Well, lots more happening this month! I'll be going to GOA with my girl friends, end of this month!!! Yaaay!!!!! I so need a break, haven't had one since almost two years!! Well hopefully this materializes, end of this month, or beginning of October - there are a couple of long weekends, so I wouldn't have to skip work!

Work, I have a choice to make. There are two roles I can chose from. One involves lot of customer interactions, and business development for net new clients, the other involves pricing

and financials with lesser interactions with clients(existing large clients). Both these roles have their pros and cons.

Being a naive software engineer that I am, both roles are relatively new an

d learning involved for me, both places is extremely high!

A couple of years down the line, I am looking at doin

g my MBA too. I am having a hard time deciding which role will be comparatively more beneficial to my MBA.

Lets see what happens at work on Monday, but suggestions are welcome!

I am feeling very good after writing all this, Like you already see, words as a form of life, is such a wonderful thing! No, Not my blog[ok maybe that too] but in the actual sense of it!

I'd love to write about love, and what impact my relationship has had in my life, but I don't want to. I have moved on and though the memories will always remain, I am a new person today. I have grown up. I never know, I might change my mind[regarding writing about it, not the relationship :P ;-) ] and someday write about all those beautiful and not so beautiful things that come packaged with "love".

I have nothing else to say! But I have loads of stuff to read! Blogs by all wonderful people! I am cursing myself for not having done this earlier. Better late than never,huh?

I am yet to comprehend the concept of awards, and other tagged posts. TMI Thursdays, all of them are hilarious reads, and if I could I'd give them the Best *Grossing Out and Burst With Laughter* Award - if there was such a thing!

Happy Sunday People! And loads of Love!! Muaaaaaaah!!!!

P.S I just read this tweet by Anthony Robbins :" A Rich man is nothing but a poor man with money! " I kinda liked it! yeah just kinda!

Friday!!

Yay! its the weekend!! :)

I haven't planned anything as of yet, I want to get ok soon!

The house I wanted - I am getting to live there!! Yay!! Ok, I'll have to live with three other girls instead of just two, but I guess that perfectly alrite!!

Many of my plans for the near future are based on living in the new place, And once I shift, I'll pour in the details for that!!!

I am having a wonderful time reading blogs by beautiful writers all around the world, and somehow, It makes me want to say, Thanks! For letting me read it!

Hugs!