Wednesday, September 2, 2009

I think I am in Love!

Ha ha ha! Made you look! ;-)!

How many times have you thought to yourself - this? That you are in Love. It needn't be love wit someone of the other gender alone, but in love with people in general or even things. I remember looking at a very adorable looking dog and the First thing that hit me was - I think I'm in Love.
Even better, after you've read a book, a very very nice book, hasn't that thought creeped into your heads? That maybe, just maybe, you are in Love.

I have, many many many many and many number of times, well thought that I am in LOVE! And I think its perfectly ok when it is the dog, or some character in a book, or
a movie, or even a TV show[p.s i thought I was in love with Willis in "Different Strokes" when I was a kid, and had dreamt of growing up and getting married to him (you many now laugh out loud) and during high school it was obviously Steve ( how could anyone not love him) -D.J's boyfriend from "Full House" and more recently both Dawson and Pacey from duhhh! Dawson's Creek - Yes, I refuse to grow up from teen sitcoms :P] Yes, it really is OK to 'think' you're in love with them!!

But what if, that thing you're in love with [if only in your head] is not a thing or a piece of fiction? What if it is a friend? What if it is a friend's boyfriend? What if it is a married man? What then? Now, you very well know, that things are not going to work out, coz obviously, your love for that person isn't the forever kind, it is just the spur of the moment kind. Is it wrong? I mean, I love my friends, the way everyone loves their friends, but here I am talking about something completely different.

Having more guy friends than girls has left me in some sort of a dilemma. I don't really get some girl advice, when I really need one. The guys are great and all, but how can a guy possibly answer this question. Or can they?

Well, like I have clarified, I don't think I am in "love" with anyone right now. Neither the forever kind, nor the spur of the moment kind. It was just a thought I got today, sitting at home the whole day and reading about other people's love stories. [I am so in love with the love story project] and this thought just came to my head, like it has always creeped into my head several thousand times over the years.

I am at home because I am sick. And I am hating every bit of being sick! Weird thought I get.
I want to be either totally completely sick or be totally completely fine. This in between thing is not my cup of tea!! Urghhh!!

Thats it for now! I am going to turn my laptop off now! Else I will be definitely hung up on the Word Challenge on FB or playing UNO!

Love[the friend kind, he he he]


  1. take care deeps....nd amazing set of photos...

  2. like there is nothing wrong with me being in love with akshaye khanna :) :), take care sweetheart and get well soon. And hey!!!!!!!!!!!u want any girl advice, just ask me. Awesome effort with the blog sweets. You just motivated me to get back to mine.

  3. Well I'm in love with Robert Pattinson! I love love love him. Like I'd make it the forever kind if I met him, and he actually talked to me. I'd totally leave my hubs for my sweet Robert. :) Dreamy!!

    And yah- I was more of a Pacey chick myself..I always thought Dawson was too whiny for me.

    I apparently have a thing for tall skinny guys. :)

  4. @Sara: ha ha! the first two seasons it was Dawson.. and since then it has been Pacey all the way!! :) Thanks for checking my post by the way!

    @Su: I know what u're talking about.. the akshaye khanna stuff!! and next time.. I'll be calling LA for girl advice.. love u hon..! Hugs!!

  5. Nothing's wrong with being in anything. I mean, when you love something it's definitely easy to be happier and excited about everything, right? :)

  6. exactly!!! :) and that excitement is what counts.. not feeling guilty about it :P.. mixture of emotions.. ;-)

  7. That happens?? That'll be so filmy if it does! Wonder what you would do if you were actually stuck? May be you should ask your friend to find out what her boyfriend thinks of you. That way everyone knows ;) (Sarcasm intended!)

  8. Hey..Nice blog :) Really ur blog name suits ur witing..Ur WORDS really are a FORM OF LIFe....
    Keep writing ...wud Love to follow u... TC :)

  9. deeps.......:)
    iv seen the emotional+bubbly+kiddish+mature+lost+preoccupied+fun side of u :) well.... :) this is "deeeps"!... amazing the way uv composed it all..i loved it :) n miss u :)
    keep it on........

  10. ^^ Love is too complex to be defined but can be felt ^^

    Good luck and take care

  11. the crazy thing is i know exactly what you're talking about. love is a very confusing thing. but.. the good thing about this blog is you can get all the girl advice you need ;) and thanks for the comment about the love stories! im having so much fun reading them :) and you know what.. this post is beautiful, i love how you talked about falling in love with different things, not even people sometimes. if youd like you could email me a story something along the lines of this post and i woudl LOVE to post it! let me know girl. xoxo!

  12. lol... definitely made me look.
    And good luch ;)

  13. I suggest u define the boundaries at the outset of forming/forging a relationship! It would help...
    In either case, to (do/not to do so) would purely be ur prerogative...
    Great post, btw.